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24. Relationship Breach

Dear Guides,

What happens spiritually when there is a breach in a relationship, such as an affair? What are alternative ways to look at it and react to it?

Excerpt from Minda’s channeling on 3.2.2010:

Dearest ones,

We feel the intensity of this question, cloaked as it is in high emotion and many moral layers within your society. The intensity is generated from the issue of trust. That trust in a worldly relationship is a reflection of trust in the Universe. It is very easy for you to think these are one and the same, that if trust is broken in your world, it puts into question your ability to trust the Universe.

In other words, what other unexpected and emotionally challenging moments await you? And why would you have manifested this most painfully non-life-affirming situation?

It is also about love. Such a breach is a moment where you are left feeling unloved, as if love passed you by, that you are not cherished in the ways you had assumed.

Suddenly, many of your premises are put into question. “Is the Universe a safe place? Or will I be sideswiped by threatening situations constantly? Am I loved and lovable? Can others love me? Does God love me? And, more importantly, can I love myself?”

These questions all bring up the feeling of alone-ness, being separate, being cut off from your most close and trusted support systems, your earthly partner, with whom you have made vows of commitment for the very purpose of discouraging such breaches, and your connection with trusted Source or God, from whom you expect ever-present unconditional love and support, and from whom you don’t wish to receive “hard lessons” or challenges that seem disproportionately hard to deal with, thank you very much.

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Channeling (c) 2010 Minda Bernstein
Painting (c) 2010 Julie Bernstein Engelmann

Painting title: Relationship Breach 3.2.2010

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